Love You Forever is a children's picture book written by Robert Munsch and published in 1986. The book is based off of the relationship between a mother and her son, which soon reverses perspectives. Munsch wrote the book after he and his wife had two stillborn babies. This book is iconic for it's repetitive lines:
"I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always,
As long as I'm living,
My baby you'll be."
Picturebooks are notorious for their ability to tell a story with more than just words. These books cannot simply tell a story with words on a page, the pictures tell elements of the story that words can overlook. There are fiction, nonfiction and poetry or song genres of picturebooks. They often are used to teach students different things, despite their age. The illustrations add to the quality of the book as a whole. '
The illustrations in Love You Forever are whole page, in beautiful color. The pictures are on the previous or following page of the page containing the text. The images appear almost pencil and paper sketched, with soft yet brilliant watercolors and a continuous base color of blue.


The style of this book is written in the style of third person. It focuses on the mother and son alone. The style of Love You Forever allows the reader to fully grasp what's happening in the story, accompanied by the large illustrations. The setting is in the home of the mother and son, which is depicted through words and the images. The author restates the scene many times as the mother crawls across her son's bedroom floor to cradle him as he sleeps. The theme is the growing relationship between mother and son, and the unconditional love it endures forever. The plot is repeated many times, the mother sets her son to sleep and comes to hold him each night, singing her love for him even as he grows into adulthood. When the son becomes a father himself he sings the same lullaby to his child, and then again to his mother as she ages and he cradles her. Both characters are seen as loving and caring family members, and Munsch shows the fun side to the son as he ages, from messy kid to silly teenager.
This book could be used as a Mother's Day activity. Before reading to the whole class, the teachers could ask students to spend a little bit of time reflecting on the love they have for their mothers, fathers or caregivers, and ask them to share their favorite memory of that person with their shoulder partners. After reading, the teacher could pass out homemade books, (papers bond together, stapled or with holes and tied together with ribbon) and have students make a story with the same theme as Love You Forever directed to their own mother or caregiver, and with their own story elements unique to their own lives. Teachers can chose to have students use to repetitive lullaby or create ones of their own. This would help students to evaluate the story and its parts, and include higher level thinking when students begin to create their own, yet similar, story.
Love You Forever also delves into the deeper concept of the circle of life. Often children reading this book wont catch onto the mother passing on at the end of the story, and students that do may not understand what that entails. This could make for a discussion topic with older aged elementary kids. Now, teachers are not advised to close the book after reading and say "Okay kids, did the boy's mom die?", but rather have students retell the main events of the story. Teachers could also incorporate a worksheet to identify the main points throughout the story.
The mother holds her new baby boy.
The son holds his mother, and sings her the same lullaby.
The mother holds her son as he grows into a teenager.
The son holds his daughter, and sings the same song to her as his mother did.
Reader Response Questions:
- Why did the mother love her son, even when he flushed her watch?
- Why do you think the son sang the same song to his child?
- What was the message of this book?
Personally, I LOVE this book. I always have. It's touching for me, because I can understand the love of a mother and child, from the child's standpoint. My mother and I are best friends, and it is because of her that I grew up loving this book. I've seen the same sacrifices the mother in the story makes, as my mom did the same. All I've ever had was my mother, so I have a lot of appreciation for Munsch's ability to capture that, even after such a tragedy in his own life.
Sources:
"Love You Forever." Love You Forever | Teaching Children Philosophy. N.p., n.d. Web. 29 Jan. 2017.
Galda, Cullinan, & Sipe, (2010). Literature and the child. Belmont, CA: Wadsworth/Cengage Learning.